There are plenty of life lessons one can learn from a mother, as these moms shared with PeopleAsia based on their own experiences. Life experiences that impart wisdom and knowledge no app, master class, or even the latest advances in AI can fully grasp, digest and replicate.
Each mother has her own specific style or approach to mothering. Whatever approach she takes, she does it with the best of intentions, sometimes through trial and error, resulting in plenty of heartaches as well as rewards. Still, there are plenty of life lessons one can learn from a mother, as these moms so willingly shared with PeopleAsia based on their own experiences in raising their kids.
And one does not have to be a mother herself to learn from and be inspired by these women who, like an old saying goes, are God’s virtual extensions on earth.
Sara Soliven de Guzman, mother of Maxine, Manolo and Monique
Motherhood is a remarkably beautiful journey. You are able to closely observe life in all its marvelous complexities: the physical, mental, psychological, and spiritual growth of another person—and have the privilege to actually participate in the process. The character and values of each of your children will depend on how you have nurtured them, so it is important to make motherhood a vocation. It’s not easy to raise children, but once you’ve given your all, the rewards are deeply fulfilling.
Alou Koa, mother of Jonard, Clement and Julia
When I became a mother I never expected that I would be the one who would have to take care of a special child with cerebral palsy at birth. It was a very difficult time that we went through as a family. I had to learn how to be resilient and how to take on an unfamiliar task of making sure that I could still provide for his basic necessities. Despite the difficulties, we managed to be happy and to stay close together as a family. I learned how to navigate life’s ups and downs. Being a mother made me realize that I have to be resilient while faced with adversity. I have to learn to embrace each moment and to nurture an unconditional love for my kids through their every challenge.
Jinky Tobiano-Sy, mother of Gian, Julia, Jillian and Gio
Being a mother is one of the hardest but at the same time the most fulfilling role. It is totally one big adventure, it is always a learning process and work in progress. Most of all, the love of a mother is the purest love of all. It is endless and it knows no boundaries.
Tania Fricke, mother of Katya and Renzo
Motherhood is the most incredible and unpredictable experience that one can have in their lifetime. For me, being a mother represents love that can’t be defined. No amount of books or advice can prepare you for it. It’s a constant flow of unforgettable experiences, passionately shared with your children. The bond that you have is irreplaceable and unmatched.
As a mother, I have grown with my children — Katya who is 27 and Renzo who is 19. Every single day is different. You nurture, you play, you learn, you advise, you laugh, you cry. It’s a roller coaster ride where you as the mother are the driver and the constant. Each day I make sure to make my children know that my love for them is unconditional.
Carmina Sanchez Jacob, mother of Tyler
I wish people knew that there is no formula for being the best mom for your child. So don’t listen too much to what other people say you should do, or worse, try and keep up with what all other parents do. Listen more to your child and what he/she really needs from you. At least it’s what’s allowed me to learn from and have a healthy relationship when it comes to my own son. I struggle like every other mom out there, but motherhood is probably the only relationship that is more fulfilling than it is challenging if you accept it wholeheartedly.
Tootsy Angara, mother of Manolo, Ines and Javier
Being a mother is a beautiful journey filled with limitless love, and I often find myself thanking God for the privilege of being chosen to be their mom—not just for this lifetime, but for a hundred lifetimes! One thing I wish people knew about being a mother is how incredibly fast children grow up. It feels like just yesterday I was teaching them to walk, and now they’re off to college or navigating their own paths. There are moments I wish I could hit pause to soak in every little experience—like attending every match or dance recital, or simply picking them up from school. It’s not about regretting missed opportunities; it’s about realizing how much those moments matter. Quality time is important, but quantity is just as vital.
Every laugh during a silly dance party, every tear shared after a tough day, and those quiet moments spent helping with homework (until they outsmart me!) are all precious treasures. I’ve learned so much from them, from how to navigate new apps to understanding the importance of kindness and compassion. I wish people could see how much we learn from our children! They teach us about love in its purest form. It’s about being there for their wins and losses, giving advice when they need it, and sometimes just being a comforting presence. Those “code memories,” as I like to call them—watching bad movies together, singing silly songs, or simply being silly—are what truly shape our connection. Motherhood is an incredible journey of love and learning, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world!
Honorary Consul General of Monaco Fortune Ledesma, mother of Rico, Rina and RJ
I would like them to know that no matter the age of their children or how accomplished or successful they are, somehow in your eyes, you will always see them as your babies. As such, you will always want to care for and protect them. Your love for your children will grow as they grow.
Joanne Golong-Gomez, mother of Sofia
Many believe that motherhood is solely about making sacrifices, often at the expense of personal happiness. However, I see it as a profound source of joy and pride—one that grows even stronger as I witness my little one transform into a compassionate, kind-hearted and thriving individual. This extraordinary journey is not just about giving; motherhood is indeed a precious gift which involves nurturing one another and celebrating each milestone together. Each day opens multiple opportunities for you to grow and learn side by side.
Being a mother to a daughter who faced cancer was one of the most painful yet transformative experiences of my life. As a mother, every bit of me wanted to take away her pain, to fight the battle for her. But in the midst of those struggles, I discovered the true strength of a mother’s love—it is not just about protection, but about resilience, faith, and unwavering hope. Her courage became my own, and through every difficult day, our bond further deepened. Together, we learned that even in the darkest moments, love and hope can shine through. I also learned to always be grateful. Every day is a blessing, and motherhood has taught me to cherish even the smallest victories, to find beauty in the present, and to embrace life with gratitude and strength.
Mitch Hernandez-Suarez, mother of Manolo and Kylie
One thing I wish more people understood about being a mother is just how many versions of yourself you have to become. Motherhood isn’t one fixed role—it’s a constant evolution. Mothers are, in many ways, shapeshifters. One day, we’re the gentle nurturer; the next, a mental coach or fitness trainer. Sometimes, I’m the trusted best friend—and other times, Public Enemy No. 1. It’s this quiet superpower—the ability to shift seamlessly into whatever role my children need—that makes motherhood both an extraordinary gift and a wild, wonderful ride. At its core, motherhood is a beautifully complex journey that demands remarkable agility and an endlessly adaptive spirit.
Alelee Aguilar-Andanar, mother of Alexa and Vince
Motherhood is the most fulfilling and rewarding job. It’s been my life’s greatest pleasure, yet biggest challenge, to be a mother. Yet there are no rules to being a good one. It is about constantly learning from experience and taking words of wisdom and advice from my own mother, Mama Mel. She is my greatest role model and teacher.
Ina Arabia-Garcia, mother of Isabelle, Enrique, Jaime and Alessandra
Motherhood is full of contradictions. It is beautiful, but there are unfiltered parts to it. You love your kids and want to spend time with them, but some days you just want to be alone. You’re happy, but also exhausted. You feel grateful, but also completely overwhelmed. You give so much, but still wonder if it’s ever enough. You want time to speed up and slow down at the same time. It’s a thankless job, but you feel fulfilled with your role as a mother.
Interviews by Jose Paolo dela Cruz, Alex Vergara, Dexter Francis de Vera and Anne Stephanie Nilo
